Memoirs: LGBTQ
Reading recommendations for those who love memoirs.
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"The only queer people are those who don't love anybody." -- Rita Mae Brown
LGBTQ Memoirs
- Body Counts byISBN: 9781451661965Publication Date: 2014-09-09From the New York of Studio 54 and Andy Warhol's Factory to the intersection of politics and burgeoning LGBT and AIDS movements, Strub's story crackles with history. He recounts his role in shocking AIDS demonstrations at St. Patrick's Cathedral as well as at the home of US Senator Jesse Helms. With an astonishing cast of characters, including Tennessee Williams, Gore Vidal, Keith Haring, Bill Clinton, and Yoko Ono, is a vivid portrait of a tumultuous era.
- Are You My Mother? byISBN: 9780544002234Publication Date: 2013-04-02From the best-selling author of "Fun Home" a brilliantly told graphic memoir of Alison Bechdel becoming the artist her mother wanted to be. Poignantly, hilariously, Bechdel embarks on a quest for answers concerning the mother-daughter gulf.
- Fun Home byISBN: 9780618871711Publication Date: 2007-06-05In this groundbreaking, bestselling graphic memoir, Alison Bechdel charts her fraught relationship with her late father. In her hands, personal history becomes a work of amazing subtlety and power, written with controlled force and enlivened with humor, rich literary allusion, and heartbreaking detail. Distant and exacting, Bruce Bechdel was an English teacher and director of the town funeral home, which Alison and her family referred to as the "Fun Home." It was not until college that Alison, who had recently come out as a lesbian, discovered that her father was also gay. A few weeks after this revelation, he was dead, leaving a legacy of mystery for his daughter to resolve.
- The Other Side of Paradise byISBN: 9780743292917Publication Date: 2010-02-09Told with grace, humor, and courage, Chin plumbs tender and unsettling memories as she writes about drifting from one home to the next, coming out as a lesbian, finding the man she believes to be her father, and ultimately, discovering her voice. .
- Forward byISBN: 9780062466983Publication Date: 2016-09-13As she reveals in this searching memoir, Abby's professional success often masked her inner struggle to reconcile the various parts of herself: ferocious competitor, daughter, leader, wife. With stunning candor, Abby shares her inspiring and often brutal journey from girl in Rochester, New York, to world-class athlete. Far more than a sports memoir, "Forward" is gripping tale of resilience and redemption; and a reminder that heroism is, above all, about embracing life's challenges with fearlessness and heart.
- Boy Erased byISBN: 9781594633010Publication Date: 2016-05-10When Garrard was a nineteen-year-old college student, he was outed to his parents, and was forced to make a life-changing decision: either agree to attend a church-supported conversion therapy program that promised to "cure" him of homosexuality; or risk losing family, friends, and the God he had prayed to every day of his life. Through an institutionalized Twelve-Step Program heavy on Bible study, he was supposed to emerge heterosexual, ex-gay, cleansed of impure urges and stronger in his faith in God for his brush with sin. Instead, even when faced with a harrowing and brutal journey, Garrard found the strength and understanding to break out in search of his true self and forgiveness.
LGBTQ Memoirs
- Why Be Happy When You Could Be Normal? byISBN: 9780802120878Publication Date: 2013-03-12Jeanette Winterson's bold and revelatory novels have earned her widespread acclaim, establishing her as a major figure in world literature. "Why Be Happy When You Could Be Normal?" is a memoir about a life's work to find happiness. It is a book full of stories: about a girl locked out of her home, sitting on the doorstep all night; about a religious zealot disguised as a mother who has two sets of false teeth and a revolver in the dresser, waiting for Armageddon; about growing up in a north England industrial town now changed beyond recognition; about the universe as a cosmic dustbin.
- After Woodstock byISBN: 9780757003929Publication Date: 2015-03-02During the summer of '69, Elliot Tiber helped start the gay liberation movement and saved the Woodstock Festival from cancellation. But some of the best and most significant events of Tiber's life did not happen until After Woodstock. In this third volume of his memoirs, following the critically acclaimed "Palm Trees on the Hudson" and his breakout bestseller "Taking Woodstock", Tiber chronicles his hilarious, madcap, and often heartbreaking adventures in the entertainment industry.
- Maggie and Me byISBN: 9781620405888Publication Date: 2014-04-08Maggie & Me is a touching and darkly witty memoir about surviving Thatcher's Britain.It's about coming out the other side in spite of, and maybe because of, the Iron Lady.
- Bad Kid byISBN: 9780062371287Publication Date: 2015-05-19Richly detailed with nineties pop-culture, and including black-and-white photos throughout, Bad Kid is as laugh-out-loud funny as it is poignant. David Crabb's journey through adolescence captures the essence of every person's struggle to understand his or her true self.
- Palimpsest byISBN: 9780679440383Publication Date: 1995-10-03This explosively entertaining memoir abounds in gossip, satire, historical apercus, and trenchant observations. Vidal's compelling narrative weaves back and forth in time, providing a whole view of the author's celebrated life, from his birth in 1925 to today, and features a cast of memorable characters--including the Kennedy family, Marlon Brando, Anais Nin, and Eleanor Roosevelt.
- When We Rise byISBN: 9780316315432Publication Date: 2016-11-29By turns tender and uproarious--and written entirely in his own words--"When We Rise" is Jones' account of his remarkable life. He chronicles the heartbreak of losing countless friends to AIDS, which very nearly killed him, too; his co-founding of the San Francisco AIDS Foundation during the terrifying early years of the epidemic; his conception of the AIDS Memorial Quilt, the largest community art project in history; the bewitching story of 1970's San Francisco and the magnetic spell it cast for thousands of young gay people and other misfits; and the harrowing, sexy, and sometimes hilarious stories of Cleve's passionate relationships with friends and lovers during an era defined by both unprecedented freedom and possibility, and prejudice and violence alike.
LGBTQ Memoirs
- Smash Cut byISBN: 9780062354952Publication Date: 2015-04-14Brad Gooch arrived in New York in the 1970s, eager for artistic and personal freedom. "Smash Cut" is his bold and intimate memoir of this exhilarating time and place, complete with its cast of wild bohemians, celebrities, and budding artists, such as Robert Mapplethorpe, William Burroughs, and Madonna. At its center is his love affair with film director Howard Brookner, recreated from fragments of memory and a crosshatch of conflicting emotions, from innocent romance to bleak despair.
- Bettyville byISBN: 9780525427209Publication Date: 2015-03-10When George Hodgman leaves Manhattan for his hometown of Paris, Missouri, he finds himself--an unlikely caretaker and near-lethal cook--in a head-on collision with his aging mother, Betty, a woman of wit and will. Will George lure her into assisted living? When hell freezes over. He can't bring himself to force her from the home both treasure--the place where his father's voice lingers, the scene of shared jokes, skirmishes, and, behind the dusty antiques, a rarely acknowledged conflict: Betty, who speaks her mind but cannot quite reveal her heart, has never really accepted the fact that her son is gay.
- The Argonauts byISBN: 9781555977078Publication Date: 2015-05-05An intrepid voyage out to the frontiers of the latest thinking about love, language, and family Maggie Nelson's "The Argonauts" is a genre-bending memoir, a work of "autotheory" offering fresh, fierce, and timely thinking about desire, identity, and the limitations and possibilities of love and language. At its center is a romance: the story of the author's relationship with the artist Harry Dodge. This story, which includes Nelson's account of falling in love with Dodge, who is fluidly gendered, as well as her journey to and through a pregnancy, offers a firsthand account of the complexities and joys of (queer) family-making.
- Neil Patrick Harris byISBN: 9780385346993Publication Date: 2014-10-14Tired of memoirs that only tell you what really happened? Sick of deeply personal accounts written in the first person? Seeking an exciting, interactive read that puts the "u" back in "aUtobiography"? Then look no further than Neil Patrick Harris: Choose Your Own Autobiography! In this revolutionary, Joycean experiment in light celebrity narrative, actor/personality/carbon-based-life-form Neil Patrick Harris lets you, the reader, live his life.
- Tranny byISBN: 9780316387958Publication Date: 2016-11-15"Tranny" is the intimate story of Against Me!'s enigmatic founder, weaving the narrative of the band's history, as well as Grace's, with dozens of never-before-seen entries from the piles of journals Grace kept. More than a typical music memoir about sex, drugs, and rock 'n' roll-although it certainly has plenty of that- "Tranny" is an inside look at one of the most remarkable stories in the history of rock.